Riddle Me This! Retold by Hugh Lupton, illustrated by Sophie Fatus

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Riddle Me This!: Riddles and Stories to Challenge Your Mind

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Review by Sandra Horning

This winter my children and I have been spending lots of time sitting around the wood stove and snuggling as we read collections of stories. Last week we came across a great collection of riddles and stories, Riddle Me This! Riddles and Stories to Challenge Your Mind, which entertained us for days. I already love most of the Barefoot Books (people can buy Barefoot Books by “Stallholders;” click here to go to the website of a Barefoot Stallholder) I’ve come across (The Barefoot Book of Knights and The Barefoot Book of Pirates are big favorites.), and this is no exception.

The riddles and stories come from all over the world, including Cuba, Russia, India and Arkansas, USA, to name a few. Some of the riddles are classic ones you probably heard yourself as a child (“Those that have eyes have no head, Those that have heads have no eyes.”), but some are new to me.

The vibrant and charming folk-art style illustrations give hints to the answers for the riddles. My four year old was able to solve a few with the help of the illustrations. And if you can’t solve the answer to a riddle, there is a handy page of answers in the back, as well as notes and sources for the stories. I peeked at a few of the answers myself!

Your library probably has a copy of this book, but if not, the paperback will be coming out this March. If you’re reading your way through the long nights of winter, Riddle Me This! should be added to your pile of books.

Ages 4-9

Ah, twins

Just a glimpse from just-before-bed-time last night:

My adorable little three-and-a-half-year old twins working sweetly on a puzzle together singing, “We’ll work together, we’ll be friends forever,” from Pooh’s Heffalump Movie.

And then I called them upstairs for bed, and Djuna read out loud to Dinah while she tried to poop on the potty.
How cute is that?

And a glimpse from tonight, right now:

One twin in a monkey costume, one twin in a frog costume, running in and out of our home office, hiding behind the door, opening and closing the door, giggling one second and screeching the next, teasing each other by swiping the little stuffed banana that came with the monkey costume.

Some days when they run around like crazy opening and closing the door to the office, like two little freaks in some Moliere play, I think that the only reason they still have their fingers is because of the blessing of little gadgets like this, something that every parent-to-be or every parent of toddlers simply must have. This one isn’t exactly like mine, but you get the idea:

door guard
Image of “Door Mouse Finger Guard” from One Step Ahead

And during the time it has taken me to write this post, now the girls are sans costumes, sitting right outside the door that would have otherwise taken off their fingers (if not for the safety gadget), and they’re sitting on the floor, their toes touching, reading their books.

Sigh. Ah, life is lovely …

The house with two of everything

“Welcome to the house with two of everything,” said a friend of mine as he came into our home recently. I hadn’t seen him in awhile, and he caught sight of a pair of chattering Elmo dolls as he entered.

This stung a little.

I am aware that I have a “thing” for toys and that I enjoy them as much, or more, than my kids. I am also aware that my kids have plenty of toys. OK. Even so, we don’t have two of everything.

Since I found out that I was having twins, I’ve been curious about this issue, particularly since I would like to prevent materialism in my kids. When I interviewed twin psychologist Dr. Eileen Pearlman about twin identity for BeTwinned, I asked her about toys and having two of the same thing. If you don’t have time to read the whole Q & A, here’s what she said about the toy concern:

BeTwinned.com: In BeTwinned toy reviews, we want to review toys that are good for sharing, but we also want to review toys that are simply great toys even if they are really best played with alone. Is it OK for parents of twins to buy toys that belong just to one twin, or should twins share everything? And, is it OK for parents of twins and multiples to double-up on some special or highly-desired toys? At first, I was afraid I was spoiling my kids if I bought them each a their own Thomas train, for example.

EP: It’s not just OK, it’s important. In order to be able to share something, you first have to own something. You can’t go straight to sharing. First it has to be learned that this is mine, and then that’s yours, and then OK, we can share.

For someone to have ownership is really important because sometimes what’s on the outside is what is reflected on the inside. If I have my own toys and my own clothes, that means I’m my own person. If I have to share everything on the outside, then do I also have to share my identity and myself inside? So the inside and the outside work together in this way. I think it’s important for parents to be able to give twins their own toys, to be able to have their own thing that they covet. This gives them a sense of ownership, a sense of pride, a sense of identity. Yes, I can see where swings and big-ticket items you could have one that they have to share. But there are certain things where they may want to have one of their own. Maybe they want something a little different, or maybe they want the same thing.

I remember when the Cabbage Patch dolls were in, and one mother told me she was going to get one of her twins a Cabbage Patch doll and the other one something else. And I said, “Well, what if they both want a Cabbage Patch?” Even if they were both singletons, they may both want a Cabbage Patch doll.

It is important for parents to follow their children’s lead to see if they want the same or if they want something different. And if there’s something that’s coveted, we need to listen to them. If they both want to take ballet, fine. But if one wants to take ballet and one wants to take gymnastics, it’d be better to say, OK, this is what I need to do right now. If you both want to take it, fine, but if not, it’s all right.

BeTwinned.com: That’s very empowering. You feel pressure from society’s values that they must always share and that you’re spoiling them if you buy them two Thomases or two Cabbage Patches.

EP: No, you’re not spoiling them at all. There is a lot of pressure. I had a mother in my group just last week – she has 15 month old twin boys. She said, “They should be sharing, they should be the same.” And I said, “Why should they be the same? Even identical twins are not the same.” We need to see where each of them is, and we need to see where they overlap. Sometimes the overlap may be great. I use the example of one twin being a red circle and the other being a yellow circle, there are places where they overlap to make orange. Sometimes there is a big overlap and sometimes there’s not. There’s a lot of red and yellow in each one and there’s orange. So you have to pay attention to all of that.

In terms of encouraging my daughters’ personal interests, I’ve found Dr. Pearlman’s advice about following the child’s lead to be very helpful.

And on the practical, home-management side, sometimes having two of the same thing really helps. For example, depending on the toy, having two can prevent a lot of fights. But, two of the same thing can also create a pain in the butt, like with two cube puzzles someone once gave us. With 30 different blocks in each puzzle and with each side of each cube offering a different picture for one of the six possible puzzles, cleanup of two sets was a nightmare. That’s 360 possible cube sides, folks. A veritable sorting-out disaster, determining which block went with which set. So, happily, one set now has a different home.

As far as gift giving, people do mean well, I know. But it’s almost always best if people just ask first. I have found that the answer to the question of whether to bring two of the same or two different toys is totally different, depending on the item. And sometimes one toy to share is perfect, too. Other times, no toy at all is also a happy alternative.

It occurred to me the other day that as far as sharing toys goes, my own twins have the great advantage of having a built-in best friend with very similar interests. For Christmas, Dinah got a stuffed Lightning McQueen and Djuna got a stuffed Tow Mater (both characters from the movie Cars), and it just delights me to hear one of them say to the other, “Hey! Wanna switch?”

How lucky is that?

TwinWatch: Fencing twins foil the opposition (and sometimes each other)

Freshmen twins Christa and Kayley French are creating “a bright future” for their Northwestern University epee team, according to an article in The Daily Northwestern.

Even better than seeing twins excel, I just love that Northwestern University was one of the few universities that was willing to recruit both young women, rather than just pick one of them.

I’m just having a hard time imagining being a mom of two girls who made it a common practice to wield sharp metal objects at each other for sport.

TwinWatch: Australian pop stars join twin study

Twins and higher order multiples participating in all sorts of health studies is nothing new, of course. (Read all about the importance of twin studies here on BeTwinned.) But Jess and Lisa Origliasso, 22, better known in Australia as pop stars The Veronicas, have been signing up for twin studies since they were kids, according to an article in Queensland’s The Sunday Mail.

And now they will be participating in a five-year glaucoma study.

From the article:

“Being twins, we know how important it is to learn as much as possible about our genes and this particular eye study is very important,” they told The Sunday Mail.

“The findings of these studies help twins like us to be able to deal with any gene problems that may occur in our lives.”

Glaucoma is a chronic eye condition that is hard to diagnose but leads to irreversible vision damage and blindness.

It affects more than 300,000 Australians and is growing in prevalence as the population ages and diabetes becomes more common.

College women’s basketball documentary features triplets

Megan, Molly and Moriah Frazee, all sophomores at Liberty University in Virginia, will be featured in a documentary about women in college basketball, according to an article on the Liberty Flames’ website. The show, “Pride, Passion and Power,” will air on Sunday afternoon, Jan. 21 from 2-3 p.m. EST on CBS Sports.

Apparently, the Frazees are the only set of triplets in NCAA Division I women’s basketball. The article also says they are top scorers and rebounders for the Lady Flames.

Back in the news: Twins in the same classroom

After a flurry of articles last year about whether twins should be forced to separate in school classes, the story has resurfaced in the Concord Monitor of Concord, N.H.:

In New Hampshire, 436 people have signed a petition asking for such a law, and seven lawmakers are registered to sponsor the bill. Nicknamed the “twin bill,” the exact legislation hasn’t been finalized, but sponsors said the gist is that it would direct schools to consider parents’ wishes when deciding whether to place multiples, which is the preferred term for higher-order births, in the same classroom or in separate classrooms.